Follow me on my journey from Birmingham, Alabama to Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Thursday, June 21, 2012
A few more observations
Sorry for the lack of posting this week. We’ve been busy with work and other things
around Addis. I’ve been working on editing success stories for the project I’m
working on – it’s difficult for non-native English speakers to write, so part
of my job is editing their work. I hope that soon I’ll be able to go out into
the field and talk to beneficiaries on my own (through a translator) and start
writing my own success stories.
So to continue my list of observations of Ethiopia:
- Carry your own toilet paper – This may be hard for Americans who have never traveled outside of the US to understand, but TP ain’t always available at a bathroom. And I ain't just talking about restaurants and other public places. I’m talking about at work. We have no TP at work. Some folks keep their roll on their desks…and carry it with them to the bathroom, and when they are done, bring it back and put it back on their desk. The other intern and I are a little classier/discreet – we keep a pack of Kleenex in our purse, and take the small pack with us to the restroom.
- Wash your hands! Because Ethiopians eat with their hands, hand washing is extremely important. When we eat in the canteen with our coworkers, we wash our hands before we eat, and after we’re done eating. I (often) forget to wash my hands before I eat in the States (even though I use silverware the majority of the time),but it’s still a good habit to have. It’s been a good refresher for me.
- GASP!! After a few days in Addis, I started noticing that locals would gasp for air while talking to me. I started worrying that they were trying to get more oxygen?? Or that I just take their breath away? Haha, kidding. But honestly, with every conversation I had with an Ethiopian, they would gasp – like they couldn’t believe what I was saying. I mentioned it to one of the interns who is half Ethiopian, and she explained that the “gasp” is a sign of agreement. So when you ask a question, and someone “gasps”, it means yes, or OK. It still kinda takes me by surprise.
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Week One Observations
It’s
hard to believe that I’ve been in Ethiopia for a week. I’m preparing for
the remainder of the time to fly by as well, but I thought I would share a few
tidbits of what I’ve learned and discovered about Addis Ababa so far:
1.
Altitude – Addis is the fourth
highest altitude post in the Foreign Service. The airport is 7,628 feet above
sea level. The US Embassy is 8,400 feet above sea level. Coming from a lower altitude is certainly
taking a toll on my body. I’ve noticed
fatigue, difficulty sleeping (the hyenas also contribute to this – see #7), and
shortness of breath from walking up a few flights of stairs. I guess this is
practice for what it’ll be like as an old person. Most people say it takes
about 2-3 weeks to adjust to the altitude. Here’s to hoping it’s sooner.
2.
Traffic/construction/driving in
general – Wow. See my previous post on life. I ain’t a bettin’ gal, but I can’t
help but think how long it’ll be before we’re in an accident. I know that’s awful
to say (and think).
3.
Eskinder (our driver) - Per
above bullet, I must say one of the best perks of this internship is having a
driver while in Addis. Eskinder takes us to work, picks us up in the afternoon,
takes us to restaurants, grocery stores, pharmacies, etc… basically anywhere we
want to go. If we are going to be out late, he’ll tell us the maximum amount a
taxi should cost us to get back to the house (taxi drivers like to inflate the
price for foreigners). He also helps me with my Amharic pronunciation in the
car – and smiles when I attempt to speak Amharic with a slight southern US
accent.
4.
Rain (or lack thereof) – The
rainy season in Addis begins in June and lasts until August/September. I was
warned to bring rain boots and a rain jacket, but thankfully I have yet to use
them! It’s only rained for about 30 minutes on 2 different days this week, so
I’ve been enjoying the temperate weather.
5.
Injera – Ethiopians eat their
stews with Injera – a sour, spongy bread like thing. I’m not a fan of
it, but when it’s put in front of me, I’ll eat a bit of it. Because Ethiopia
was “occupied” by Italy for several years, pasta and other Italian foods are available
in cafes and restaurants. Ethiopians also know how to make a mean macchiato!
6.
Internet – Internet is hard to
come by – even at the house. Electricity is often cut off (for no reason),
making it difficult to access the web. I’ve only been without my iPhone for a
week, but already I realize how much I relied on that thing. Americans (and
others in developed countries) have the world at their fingertips. Not so much
in Ethiopia. I’m learning to appreciate the luxuries I have in the states…and
not spending countless hours on the Internet “just cuz”.
7.
Hyenas – Per a previous post,
not only do the barking dogs and altitude keep me up at night, but also howling
hyenas! In the movie Lion King I thought the hyenas laughed more than howled….kids..this
is the truth!
I’m sure there are more things…but
I’m not sure when the Internet will cut out. This list is to be continued….
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Life
Yesterday I saw something that I had never seen before….and
hope to never see again. I had
originally planned to write about my first week in Ethiopia today, but I
thought I would blog about what happened on our way home yesterday from a day
trip. About 8 of us rented a van and went to Wenchi Crater Lake (I’ll try to
post pictures soon – but here’s a link so you can get an idea of where we were-
http://www.wenchi-crater-lake.com/about.php).
The lake was absolutely beautiful and it was a treat to get out of the city and
away from traffic and smog (my lungs thanked me!).
I haven’t written about traffic yet, but traffic in Addis (and
larger towns) not only consists of cars in the road, but goats, cows, and
people crossing at any given time. Crosswalks are non-existent here, and even
if they were, no one would use them. In our first week, there have been
COUNTLESS times where someone has walked in front of our vehicle and our driver
has had to slam on his brakes to keep from hitting the person.
We were about 1.5 hours away from home, and as we came down
a hill, the traffic was at a complete standstill and people were all over the
road. I initially thought that a fight going on, but as we got closer, we
realized what happened. There was a body in the road. The accident had just
happened, and someone was bringing a sheet to lay over the body. Everyone from
the village as coming out to see and the older women and men were crying and
raising their hands to the heavens and saying things in Amharic.
We were stuck. There was nothing for us to do. And there was
nowhere we could go. We were on a two lane road and people were surrounding the
body and our van. Our driver turned the car off and we just sat and watched.
There were no police. No ambulance. The body was lying on the street and residents
of the village were paying their last respects.
Finally an unmarked van was able to maneuver its way through
the crowd (almost hitting several other people) and the side door opened. From
the path that the vehicle made our driver was able to drive through the crowds
and get back on the road to Addis. As we
passed the van, I looked out the window and saw the owner of the van and other
men picking up the body and putting it in the van.
As we drove away, I couldn’t help think about life and how
quickly it can be taken away. We may
have passed this person on our way to the lake, and he had no idea that his
life would end later that day. My great-grandma turned 100 yesterday. Life can
be short. Life can also be long. But I think it’s important to do the things
you want to do today, because we aren’t promised tomorrow. As Mark Twain said, “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by
the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the
bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails.
Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Also, please let me know
if you’re not getting updates from my blog. Posting is sporadic due to internet
outage, etc. I’ll try to update this afternoon and post a few pictures from
yesterday.
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Ethiopian Proverbs
Part of my job this summer is to
work with the gender team at Save the Children USA on technical support. When I
had my introduction to the topic, the Sr. Technical Advisor was explaining how gender
norms create an unequal balance of power between women and men in
Ethiopia. Verbal messages (poems, sayings, proverbs) can impact the society in a negative (or positive) way that
encourage/discourage gender inequality and risky sexual behaviors that can lead
to HIV transmission.
Here are a couple of my favorite Ethiopian proverbs and what the
cultural assumptions are (as explained by the advisor):
- “A woman is born just to please a man” – This proverb assumes that women cannot say no to men…meaning women have less power in relationships than men.
- “A lady is good when staying at home and a flame is strong in the oven” –promotes isolating women and limiting their access to information and health services.
- “Both a girl and a masero (the smallest pot) can serve their purpose despite their size” - promotes cross generational relationships.
- “A woman and a phone booth both work with a coin” - assumes that if someone gives a woman money, the woman will do whatever is asked of her or it assumes that the only way to have a sexual relationship with a woman is to give her money.
- “It is difficult to quit sex as much as avoiding urinating” - assumes that men cannot control their sexual desires.
As you can tell, gender equality plays an important
role in ensuring safe-sex practices. Going through these proverbs and
understanding the cultural background and norms in Ethiopia has already been a
learning process. It’s not something that can be changed overnight like educating
populations on the importance of the use of condoms or handing out vouchers for free clinic visits
and medication. As an M&E person, I
questioned how one can measure a change in norms? The old beliefs still exist and will exist for a long time. Looks like
I’ve got my hands full :)
Monday, June 11, 2012
Work Day #1
Don’t worry. I’m not gonna detail each day at work for the
next 10 weeks, but I figured the first day deserved a post by itself.
Where to begin? How
about midnight?! I went to bed Sunday night at around 9PM (still a little
jet-lagged and dealing with the altitude), but I woke up around midnight to the
barking of a couple of dogs in the neighborhood. Apparently all of us in the
house were up from midnight – 3AM (when the dogs finally decided to stop
barking – maybe they finally got tired?). A couple of street dogs were outside
of the neighbor’s house and the neighbors have a dog they keep locked in a pen
at night. Locked up dog was not happy about the two dogs on the street. And
before long, dogs all over Addis were barking and chiming in. I wanted to open
my window and scream at them to go home…but then I realized they probably
wouldn’t understand me. If they bark again tonight, I’ve come up with a brilliant
plan to start throwing shrimp out the window to get them hush-up. Unless we
cook the shrimp tonight for dinner….then it’s green beans?
I quickly fell back asleep, but at 4AM I woke to the sound
of prayers. No, not the Muslim call to prayer, but from the Ethiopian Orthodox
church in the neighborhood. The church is praying for families in the neighborhood.
How can I request that tomorrow morning they pray for the dogs to be quiet and
for Meena to sleep? Thank you!
Fast forward to breakfast…our USAID contact met us for
coffee/tea/bread/eggs and to discuss our itinerary. Two of the interns got sick
last night from the Ethiopian food we had (yes mom, I ate with my hands – no silverware),
so only 3 of us were going to work the first day. One intern is working at an organization
by herself, but Whitney (MPH student from UNC-Chapel Hill) is working with me
at Save the Children on the HIV prevention program. We didn’t know where we
going (and neither did our driver). After a couple of calls to the Embassy, we
finally found the office. It’s a pretty large compound – there’s even a
cafeteria on site! We met with the team (our boss is in the States for the next
few weeks), and basically spent the day reading reports. We had lunch with the
staff (more Ethiopian food), and once we got back to the office, it felt like
nap time. We lasted until about 2:30 and called our driver to pick us up. It’s
kinda nice not having to drive – traffic is INSANE! There’s one junction that I
want to stand on the corner and record the cars driving - it looks like the
crazy videos you see on YouTube from Vietnam! Maybe I should put in a prayer
request for vehicle safety tomorrow morning :)
Saturday, June 9, 2012
Hello Africa! Nice to see you again!
Well, Africa, here I am! I knew I had arrived when I stepped
off the plane and smelled the air...it’s hard to explain to someone who’s never
traveled to Africa, but in my opinion, Africa has a smell of muggy, hot, construction,
food, and sweat mixed all together. I’m sure my sweaty self was adding to the
aroma after traveling for 24 plus hours, but let’s not jump ahead.
So I left Atlanta on Thursday night bound for Dubai. The
flight was completely full – mostly Indian expats and American soldiers on
their way to Afghanistan. I can usually sleep on long flights (this one took 14
hours), but after they passed out dinner and everyone was getting ready to go
to sleep, they realized that they couldn’t dim the lights. At all. They called
Atlanta in hopes of finding a “secret button” to press to turn off the lights
(direct quote from one of the flight attendants – seriously). Alas, no secret
button was found, and I attempted to sleep with the lights on. Fast-forward 14
hours and we land in Dubai. Because of my intricate flight itinerary, the folks
in Atlanta weren’t able to check my bags all the way through to Addis Ababa,
which meant I had to go through immigration in Dubai. After a couple of
questions about what I’m doing in Dubai (trying to get my bags and get on
another flight) and how long I’ll be there ( 3 hours sir, and counting), I’m
finally able to pass through and get my bags.
Now, imagine me wandering around Dubai’s airport trying to
find the Gulf Air ticket counter, with 2 rolling bags, a purse, a book bag and
another bag on my shoulder. Moving from one building to another, I finally find
the ticket counter and arrive drenched in sweat! It was HOT outside! How I’ll
survive in August, I’m not sure, but we’ll think about that later. I manage to get back to the terminal and wait
for my flight to Bahrain. I was surprised to find the majority of the
passengers being of Ethiopian descent – and very young. They were all carrying
duty-free items from Dubai and my sense was that they travel to Dubai to shop
for items they can’t get in Ethiopia. What happened next was very shocking. While most airlines board by zone or row, Gulf
Air only allowed the whites/Arabs/Asians to board first, before allowing anyone
who was black to board. I was shocked, but followed the rules when the flight
attendant started motioning me to move along.
The flight to Bahrain was about 45 minutes, but they were
sure to get a meal in! The girl I sat next to looked at the sandwich with some
sort of chicken hummus thing and said “Lebanese food”. So we had Lebanese food on a flight from the
United Arab Emirates to Bahrain, with 95% of the passengers being from
Ethiopia. That’s culture my friends.
Boarding the flight to Addis Ababa from Bahrain was even less
organized than by the color of our skin. It was a free-for-all. Women were boarding the plane and had no idea
where they were supposed to sit, so they just sat next to their friends...which
caused much frustration for the flight attendants. Speaking of, the flight
attendants from Bahrain to Addis could speak English, Thai, Mandarin, Arabic,
German, Flemish (really?), and French. I was impressed with their ability to
communicate with others on the flight – although this flight was 99.9 percent
Ethiopian, and 2 white girls (including myself). The girls on my row found it hilarious to
order “icy whiskey” when dinner came around. When they realized they couldn’t
just drink the whiskey, they got a coke and tried to drink it (didn’t drink
much of it – I guess they just wanted to see if they could order it).
Once I arrived in Addis, and made it through immigration
(which included picture taking and fingerprint sets), I found my bags
relatively quickly, but that’s where “Take-charge Nabavi” stopped. My driver
wasn’t there. And I didn’t have the phone number of the hotel (it’s brand new).
AND I couldn’t get in touch with the 24-hour duty officer at the Embassy. I sat
down in the airport and realized that this was the icing on the cake – I make
it to Ethiopia by myself and the easiest part (finding a man holding a piece of
paper with your name on it) was going to do me in. I waited an hour and a half.
Finally I saw someone with a piece of paper that said “Ms. Meena Nabavi -
USAID/Ethiopia”. Relief! I sighed and the
man carried my bags out to the car. My room is located near the airport – maybe
only 5 minutes away. I met 2 of the other interns (briefly) and came up to my
room. Not sure what my first day in Ethiopia will hold, but know that it’s only
8AM and my day is already off to a bang! I’m back in Africa!
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